We are all exploring each day to find our path, and define our choices.  We say yes, we say no, we feel confident about something, and utterly weak in the knees about another.

life is quite truly a journey.

But a journey to what?

That, my friend, is your choice.

Choosing your journey is a decision that needs to be made daily. You need to wake up and decide what you are going to make your life about today.

Is your journey going to be about finding your happiness? Filling your soul? Helping others?
Or, is it going to be about taking others down., creating drama or causing conflict.

We have this choice every time we think, breathe, speak or write.

And when we are finally able to choose to do things that matter, well now your journey is secure.

and trust me, I know, it’s hard. It’s hard to keep the focus on doing things that matter, it is hard not to leap into the pen of drama.

But, in the end, it is worth it.

It is scary to follow your dreams and create a journey for your life. Terrifying in fact.  It means having to believe in yourself day, after day, even if others don’t.

It can be messy sometimes too, but you should keep your hands clean. In the end, ethics, honesty and doing things that really matter, will see you through.

So, I guess the only question left is “what matters” to you.

Is it building people up, creating magic, supporting and helping?  if so, do it.

If not. . . maybe it is time to re-think your strategy because (spoiler alert) it isn’t going to fulfil you in the end.